Yep, back from a coffee break..
So it´s amazing to me that people nowadays just see the outer layer of you when they determine if you are beautiful or not. It all comes down to preferences in my opinion when talking about something you can see immediately. Im old fashioned in that sense that I think beauty really comes from the inside and if a person is beautiful you can see it on the outside as well. I´ll explain my view a bit. If a person has a beautiful soul / personality ( to me these two things are the same ) You´ll see it from their eyes. In my mind the mirror of the soul really is a persons eyes. I always notice the eyes first, if there is something worth getting to know in a person I've always seen a spark in that persons eyes, you can also see if their smile goes up to their eyes, if it doesn't well.. I usually don´t get interested in getting to know that person more. I´ve noticed through my work that people say way more with their eyes than with their mouth´s or bodies. I always look the other person in the eyes when talking to them and usually when I see someone interesting I look at the eyes first, the same thing has happened to me when I've realized that I am interested in a person romantically, they have beautiful eyes with that special spark .. weird.
Why isn´t personality suddenly a criteria anymore? who decided what is beautiful anyways? I mean why can´t people accept the fact that someone else might find something you dislike very beautiful in their mind? Why isn´t diversity appreciated? Why do you have to fit into a mold to be beautiful?
Oh and now I just have to recommend the following things: Please look at Nikki Sixx´s photobook: This is gonna hurt & listen to Sixx AM´s album This is gonna hurt especially the songs Lies of the Beautiful People & Skin and after done those things think really really really hard have you condemned people as ugly for wrong reasons? seeing someone who is different and saying they are ugly without knowing the person is wrong in every way I can think of.
When I was a child my mother brought a former patient of hers to our home ( she is a nurse and she was working in a organization to support people with disabilities to function at their own home) and I befriended him immediately, he is one of the most sweetest and loving and one of the most BEAUTIFUL people I've seen in my life. He has multiple disabilities including a tough case of down syndrome and he uses his electric wheelchair to get around he also suffers from a disability that makes it hard for him to talk but he is not hard to understand if you stop and listen to him. He has this amazing way of smiling at you and when you look at his eyes you can see the biggest spark ever. If he loves you, he will take out a comb from his little bag that he has with him when you are talking and he will hand the comb to you and he expects you to comb his hair, for me it was the biggest compliment I have received from an adult person. When I grew up I suddenly started to notice how people stopped and stared at us when we were talking for example in a grocery store and I was combing his hair on my knees on the ground so that we could be on the same level and look each other in the eyes and just talk. Listening to the Sixx AM song Skin makes me think of him and I always cry. He is beautiful in every way and he is a an amazing person in every way and a great friend to people that he cares about.
Please people, but your own behavior under a microscope and think why would you judge, avoid, discriminate or label people as ugly. My biggest wish is that this post makes even 1 person think about this.
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