Life Online

Yes, you got it.. I got annoyed by something "again" :-D

ok so social media is the topic of the day so let´s get started.

Social media is a fantastic way to stay in touch with people abroad and a great way to meet new people and discuss with them, get your own opinions ideas etc out there. I for example have a lot of friends who currently live abroad, either I've met them through my job, they have moved from Finland to another country or they for some reason currently just reside abroad.  Being in touch through social media is cheaper than most other ways, it´s faster and you don´t have to check out the time zone to contact someone because they will see your msg or comment when they check their own page / profile whatever. I wouldn´t have time to exchange 3 hour phone calls because I, like most people have a life outside the world wide web.

I personally prefer twitter because you can just throw a fast update or comment, shout out etc.. when you feel like it and because I spend most of my days on my pc at work anyways because I am in international trade and sales so exchanging stuff online is what my work day is mostly filled with. Also you can check stuff on twitter too. I use Youtube a lot too because I want to listen to music when I work or listen to a documentary etc.

But as with all things there is a downside to my life online that annoys the h*** out of me sometimes. Every once in a while I get these personal messages and I like to talk to new people so I always reply. Then when you have been talking to someone for a while suddenly a msg pop´s up on your twitter account asking to get a picture of your private parts and a question "are  you tight?" to accompany the request or you get an online sex invitation or an invitation to see you nude on cam or something really disrespectful like that. Now im going to list out why this annoys me so much.

1. I don´t have a nude pic of myself as a profile pic, do I? So why the hell would I send one to you by request?
2. I haven´t promoted my profile as a "get-a-pic-of-my-p***y" profile now have I? So why would you think I would send you a pic?
3. I haven´t stated anywhere that I am looking for online sex now have I? so why do you assume I would like to do that?
4. I´ve known you for 2 minutes now, why would you assume that I want you to see my intimate parts? I haven´t promoted that anywhere either now have I?
5. Where the hell does it say associated with Redtube on my profile? no where... get it??
6. "come on, I will show you mine first" ... *rolls eyes* did I ASK to see yours? no? so why  would I want to see it ?

I think it´s perfectly ok for people to ask about stuff from me, rather that than assuming things or profiling me automatically with 3 tweets and a pic. But when someone has sent you 10 messages in total I don´t think it´s respectful to ask these kinds of things, this all comes down to something I've written about before -> MANNERS!! if you are doing this.. where is your manners? go out and buy a magazine or click to the free porn sites that you can find via google etc.. just don´t come back and ask shit like this from me ok?

as a closing I would like to say that I love sex, I am not shy about it nor my body and I rather have sex with the lights on and show everything and I will stare into the eyes of my partner etc.. but I do not appreciate this sort of disrespectful behavior .. period..