Introducing me

Ok well I thought maybe it´s time to give a short insight to the crazy redheads life who is feeding you her thought´s online :-D Plus that I have been asked to do this and this will answer most questions

Where to start.. hmm im 30at the moment, turning 31 this summer, I was born in 1984 on a beautiful sunny evening in July (Friday the 13th ... yeah I know :-D ). I am Finnish and I live in Finland in a beautiful city by the shoreline called Vaasa. I am a proud mother of an intelligent little boy :)

Currently I work as a  Country Import Control Administrator  in a big international company that manufactures all sorts of solutions for the electricity sector (will not mention the company name as I do not re-present my company in this blog ) I have worked in International sales and logistics for 14 years now (started when I was 17) I have had multiple roles in the field but the current title probably gives me the most biggest challenge as basically I give the business units specialized customs, logistics and trade compliance support. and yes, my working language is English :) I feel like I mostly speak English during the week :-D

I have 2 older brothers who made sure that I will know how to fix my car etc when I grow up :-D which of course gives me a lot of independence and it probably goes without saying that I am financially independent as well. My mother was a single parent after I turned 6 so we were raised to be independent as well as my father wasn´t around which was good because he is an alcoholic and he was abusive.

Now in the following part I will answer questions that I've received and I will try to paint of picture of myself to people who have never met me in person.. ok so where to start :-D

I have goals and when I have one I will push to reach it. I am loud in a way and I love to goof around and be humoristic, I love to make people laugh and to cheer up their day. I am typically in a good mood and you can see me smiling. I always look you in the eyes when I am talking to you and I think I have good manners as my mom made sure that we did all by the book so  to speak. I can be serious and very professional when it is needed. I am outgoing and social but then again sometimes I need a bit of me time just to sit on a rock on a beach at sundown or take a glass of wine and admire the starlit sky and think about stuff or just draw to myself to charge my batteries. I can have a temper if I have a crappy day going on or if I have to push a goal through (at work for example) I have a spine and a set of balls bigger probably than most guys do when it comes to the work me :-D I have colleagues that always joke that I must have a baseball bat stashed somewhere under my desk :-D

I am empathetic. I am also in a way pretty sensitive, I will cry if I watch the news about something horrible or I watch a save the children commercial or watch a cartoon and something bad happens in it, I will also cry happy tears if something super awesome happens in a movie or in some TV series, so I am a bit funny that way :-D

I will tell you straight up if you offended me in some way and not pout and give you the silent treatment for days because I like to try to solve issues before they grow and get tougher to solve.

me as a partner then, hmm I am the type of girl who will cook for you, give you massages,  tickle you, play playstation games with you, play pool, watch ice hockey and scream at the TV set :-D joke around, wrestle with you,  stroke your hair, pull myself behind you to hug you, touch you, kiss you passionately, keep your needs in mind when we get intimate, snuggle up close to you but there is one warning when I am trying to fall asleep I need my own space :-D  also I think time spent with friends is important so I will never get in your way when you want to do that because I need that too so I don´t feel the need to be with you 24/7. Also I believe there are no women or man chores in specific so I expect you to do housework too :-D so to put it in a few words, I am passionate and funny in a goofy way I guess :-D

me as a mother, I am childish in a way and by that I mean I will roll around the floor wrestling with my son, play at the toy store like any other "big" kid :-D  play board games, play in the snow and in the water, have a water war with him, I will play lego games, get dressed during Halloween and wear an elf cap at Christmas dinner, sing funny songs with lyrics that I come up as I go along to keep my son entertained and to make him laugh, make sure that he has what he needs without spoiling my kid. I am supportive and I try to teach him stuff. We have long discussions about any topic in the world that he comes up with of course keeping his age in mind to mold my explanation to his current level, we have no taboos. I am sort of a strict mother and if he crosses a limit he will get a punishment like "no TV for 3 days" etc,

ok then the "shell" I will reply to some of the questions here as well. Yes I am pretty tall in comparison to the "average" 173 cm. My natural hair color is golden blonde but I like my red hair, and no it´s not a standard off the shelf hair color, my hair is pigmented so my natural pigment has been replaced with red pigments, too bad it does not grow out like that :-D My hair is cut in a layered style and is pretty long. yes, my hair is naturally curly. My eyes are greyish blue and no I do not wear colored contact lenses and sometimes people tell me that my eyes turn from greyish blue to green and blue in some situations. I have a pigment spot in my right eye so no that´s not photoshopped in my pics. no, I have had no cosmetic surgery on myself, so everything you see was there before too except for the make-up and the hair color :-D ) I have been a tomboy (and still am in a way) until my late teens and I began to show my feminine side around 17. no I don´t always wear make-up, for example during the weekends I usually just have a natural look even though I would be going somewhere of course that depends on the situation :-D my eyebrows do grow in the shape that I have darkened them to, without make-up im just so blonde that even my eyebrows are blonde :-D

then on to my hobbies in addition to writing crappy blog posts I do Kung-Fu, swim and dance and well, anything that interests me so it´s hard to define all of that because it might change tomorrow :-D

so that´s me in a nutshell and if you have something else you would like to know about me just ask :) maybe i´ll post a follow up at some point as a vlog